Who are you, really?
You know yourself, but what if you had someone SEE you from the outside?
I’m Talyn Rahman-Figueroa, the Fairy BOSSmother. I’m a Public Identity Expert and British-trained diplomat, and I spot the gaps in your identity that you’re too close to notice.
People don’t always see you for who you really are, and sometimes you don’t either.
That’s what I fix.
You might think you’re showing people exactly who you are and being “authentic”. But what they see can be very different from what you intended. I look at how you speak, behave and present yourself to spot the things you can’t see. Then I show you what’s coming across, what’s getting lost and what makes you stand out.
YOU MIGHT NEED AN OUTSIDE PAIR OF EYES.
☑️ You know what you mean, but other people aren’t seeing it in the same way.
☑️ Something about your communication feels off, but you’re too close to name what that is.
☑️ Your role, reputation or organisation has changed, but the outside world hasn’t caught up.
☑️ What you intend to communicate and what people actually perceive are two very different things.
☑️ The people around you aren’t challenging you, so you don’t know what the truth is.
☑️ You need an outside perspective to understand your situation before making the next move.
HERE’S WHAT I NOTICE
The thing you barely think about might be the thing I can’t stop seeing.
When you speak, I listen out for patterns, contradictions, borrowed identities, your past self, and a future you may not have thought about. This level of heightened perception is something you don’t have in your own organisation or circle, but now you do.
I’ll know the gap when I see it. And now you’ll know it too.
What people say after I show them
what they couldn’t see themselves…
“She helps others find that they HAVE everything they NEED already.”
Dave Marks
(X-Ray participant)
“She stops me in my track, makes me think and triggers new ideas every time I talk to her.”
Nadja Fromm
(X-Ray participant)
“I didn’t know what to expect, so I was a little nervous going in, but Talyn is so easy to talk that the conversation just flowed.”
Damola Adeniyi
(X-Ray participant)
Experience the
HUMAN BRAND X-RAY
You’ve been looking at yourself from the inside your whole life. I want to see what happens when I look from the outside. You send me a short video. I watch with as little context as possible. Then I’ll tell you what I see.
Don’t take my word for it. Watch me do it.
MEET TALYN
The Fairy BOSSmother
I didn’t set out to become the Fairy BOSSmother.
I spent years in diplomacy, politics and international affairs, surrounded by people with impressive titles. Heads of states, ambassadors, politicians, decision-makers. And I became fascinated by what happened when you stopped listening to the title and started paying attention to the person. What they repeated, what they avoided, what changed when they entered a room. The things everybody else seemed to accept without questioning.
Then I left that world and built businesses of my own. And somewhere along the way, I realised I’d been doing the same thing for years: watching people. The Fairy BOSSmother gave that part of me a name.
Today, I’m a Public Identity Expert with a blazer, boxing glove and head wrap. I look at people from the outside and tell them what I see that they may be too close to see themselves.
I don’t know what I’ll notice until I look. That’s rather the point.
Watch
THE FAIRY BOSSMOTHER SHOW
I don’t interview guests.
I read them, then reflect back.
Every episode is a live Human Brand X-Ray. Watch what happens when someone hears what I’ve noticed about them in real time.
This realtor is hiding the best part of herself - Episode 51
Now his work makes sense after revealing his story - Episode 59
HOW MUCH OF MY EYES DO YOU NEED?
Human Brand X-Ray
A private outside read about how you present yourself without
the audience.
Public Identity Blueprint
Your full strategic dossier for how you show up publicly.
Private Advisory
Confidential counsel for individuals, teams and institutions that need an outside perspective.
SO... CURIOUS TO SEE WHAT I’LL SEE?
There’s only one way to find out.
Follow @bossdiplomat to watch how
the Fairy BOSSmother thinks in public.
